Chances are the reason why you're struggling have nothing to do with YOU. And everything to do with how you were taught growing up.
And the good news is you can fix it!
I've been working with people for the last 10 years in the areas of demystifying love and I see this pattern all the time.
So instead of simply being love, you begin to push and pull and TRY REALLY HARD which leads to more frustration and sadness.
But the good news is you can resolve this by addressing the root of the problem.
And that means learning what LOVE feels like.
And you can do that by simply practicing it on a daily basis.
If you're struggling to have a healthy loving relationship in your life (with anything) the best thing you can do is STOP LOOKING TO OTHERS for validation and proof that you're worth it.
And start really LOVING UP YOURSELF INSTEAD.
And if want to go deeper you can: